
Fly Boy has been preparing for this incredibly difficult day for several weeks.
As a career soldier, deployment is nothing new. He's been to Korea, Bosnia, Iraq, and today he and 30 other soldiers from his brigade are departing at noon for a one year "tour" in Afghanistan. (The word "tour" almost makes it sound like a real vacation!) These soldiers, delayed for departure as a result of various personal and professional issues are about 3 weeks behind the others who are already settled in to their choice Afghan digs. These guys get the left-overs!
In Fly Boy's case, his delay was due to the birth of his second child in December. He's been a "hands-on" Daddy, joyfully assisting in diapers, feeding and care of both his boys. Last night they video-taped him reading a variety of children's stories so the kids could see him and hear his voice while he's gone! I think that is so special. He's also taking a along a web cam so that the children can see and talk to him over the lap-top computer. Modern technology is so wonderful now, compared to when he first was deployed to Korea as a fairly new soldier!
This deployment is different because this time, he's a husband and a father to kids who were born after he returned from Iraq! When he was in Iraq for a year, Fall Girl was his new bride and a successful soldier herself. Now she's going to experience this adventure as a FORMER soldier, and busy, stay-at-home mom of two babies.
I have every faith in her ability to be strong, successful and self-sufficient due to her character and solid military experience. Plus, lately Fly Boy's been giving her some lessons in some of the finer points of certain home maintenance issues, such as properly hooking up a propane tank. There's not too much that girl can't do! And as someone who used to jump outta perfectly good airplanes as part of the Army's demonstration free-fall/parachute team, she ain't afraid of nothin'! She'll be just fine!
Last night reality set in for all of us as our visit came to an end...for now. I just hugged him tightly, told him how proud I was of him and his accomplishments, and how I expected him to do his job well and come home safe to us, safely!
I am glad I am not at the airfield to see him off today as that has got to be the toughest thing a Mom can do. Just writing this is hard enough.
Now, I am going out to lunch with a friend so I can be distracted for a little bit!
But one more thing before I go.....
That's me....sitting inside Fly Boy's Kiowa, OH 58 Helicopter, last summer! How cool is that? Nice pedicure on those little Fred Flintstone shaped feetz, huh!


Oh nice picture and great pedicure!! I cannot imagine sending off my son once let alone several times!
ReplyDeleteThank you for your always sweet and kind comments - even on my post's that are less about recovery and all about being a bit self absorbed!
I'm sure that this is a sad day. I don't do leavings very well. I hope that your son is safe every day.
ReplyDeleteMy daughters husband is being deployed to Iraq. I find her courage and strength humbling. She hasn't even been married a year. Skye had a chance to see him for one week over the holidays. She won't be able to see him again until Sept. at the least, hopeful. May all our sons and daughter, those who serve, those who wait their return, stay safe. (Hugs)Indigo
ReplyDeleteI will say a prayer, you're in my thoughts.
ReplyDeleteThat is a very hard thing to do, seeing someone off. Video taping him reading books is so wonderful. They must be very thoughtful parents :) I wish him a safe return.
ReplyDeletexo Cindy
Sending positive thoughts Fly Boys way.... And yours! (Didn't they call Fred Flinstone "Twinkle Toes"?) :P
ReplyDeleteI am sorry he has to go, but please know I am wishing him all the best, a successful deployment and a safe trip home. This is an amazing, difficult thing he is doing. Please tell him I said thanks, and good luck!
ReplyDeleteMany prayers!
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heather
I will be praying for his safe return. And the next time you see him, make sure he knows how grateful we ALL are for his service to his country! :]
ReplyDeletei agree with Sarah...only prayers. thanks lisa for your comments....take care...naki
ReplyDeleteI think your footsies are cute and that's saying a lot since I HATE feet.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry for the sadness you must be feeling today. Deployment stinks. It really does. Especially when small children are invovled. But it sounds like your grandkids will be in good hands with your daughter-in-law.
Hope you had a lovely lunch.
Big hugs!
XOXO
Nothing like being divided with one purpose. When you leave the ones you love to protect that witch you hold so dear. When peace is what you seek but chaos is what you feel within your breast. Harmony fills your sol until the break of dawn. Thank You God, for such as those who care. Thank you Mom for your lonely heart.
ReplyDeleteI'll keep Fly Boy in my prayers. My own Soldier Son returns to Afghanistan from his mid-tour R&R next week. Sigh. I cried when he came home, I'm sure I'll cry even more when he leaves us again! ~~Kath~~
ReplyDeleteLisa...
ReplyDeleteI have a helluva time posting comments on your blog. It's really frustrating and it kind of screws up the whole blog/community experience.
I was trying to say that I admire your attitude, and wish Flyboy godspeed. But Blogger seems uninclined to allow me to express those sentiments.
AUUGGGHHH!
Your today's story is nice. It is sad indeed to see off a son to the army. Hope he'll be save.
ReplyDeleteI don't know how you do it!! My 15 year old wants to join up, my only saving grace is I have been able to convince her that if she goes to college first, she will be eligible for officers training. I put a prayer in for your Fly Boy and God Bless you and yours
ReplyDeleteI have enjoyed reading about your lovely family. Lovely idea to make a film of your son reading to his children. :)
ReplyDeleteI hope the time goes by very quickly and he will be back safely with his family again.
... is he going to destroy any heroin fields then?... I'm a heroin addict and am constantly bemused by the fact our (British) troops have been in there for years and yet opium harvests are going through the roof!
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